Joining this journey.
Parents and caregivers, you are not alone, others have walked and paved this path before you. Need support, lived experiences, faith-filled encouragement, and time to process head, heart, and soul? Welcome to your space.

Parenting invites us to be curious, open, and discerning.
There's much hope - a way forward - one step and breath at a time. While some voices suggest that loving our rainbow child means we ‘encourage’ them to be straight, you won’t find that rhetoric here.
There are many other voices worth listening to, offering faithful and life-giving outcomes for your child, your faith, and yourself.
Keep the narrative going.
Many willingly share their mistakes having found themselves stuck between the proverbial rock and a hard place of “my child or the church”. Their stories tell of heartbreak and celebration, unlearning and relearning, loving well and letting go, and discovering God again for the first time.

Boy Erased: A Memoir of Identity, Faith, and Family

Refocusing My Family: Coming Out, Being Cast Out, and Discovering the True Love of God

Embracing the Journey: A Christian Parents' Blueprint to Loving Your LGBTQ Child

Raising Kids beyond the Binary: Celebrating God’s Transgender and Gender-Diverse Children

Beyond a Binary God: A Theology for Trans* Allies

Parenting the Rainbow: A CHRISTIAN PARENT’S GUIDE TO LOVING THEIR GAY CHILD WELL

Faith in Transition: A Pastor's Journey in Affirming His Transgender Son

Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground

How We Sleep At Night: A Mother's Memoir

Risking Grace, Loving Our Gay Family and Friends Like Jesus

"Mom, I'm Gay," Revised and Expanded Edition: Loving Your LGBTQ Child and Strengthening Your Faith
Radically Included: The Biblical Case for Radical Love and Inclusion: 49 Verses That Will Change Your Life, Change Your Love, and Set Your Heart Free!

Sex Difference in Christian Theology: Male, Female, and Intersex in the Image of God

The Gender Identity Guide for Parents: Compassionate Advice to Help Your Child Be Their Most Authentic Self

Parenting with Pride: Unlearn Bias and Embrace, Empower, and Love Your LGBTQ+ Teen

One Coin Found: How God's Love Stretches to the Margins

UNFAIR: Christians and the LGBT Question

Shame-Sex Attraction: Survivors’ Stories of Conversion Therapy
“When the light goes on for a parent and all the sudden they get it, that their job is not to convict but to love, we routinely get to see the parent and the child grow in a deeper relationship with God and with each other.”
Greg and Lynn McDonald
Listen, Learn, Love.
Got some time to listen rather than read?
Listening to other perspectives that may not have yet been considered,
equally challenges the congruency and bias of our belief systems.
There's a quickening in the mind, body, heart, and especially soul when
Holy truth bombs drop into our organised and comfortable theology.
Welcome that quickening. Embrace those Holy ‘aha’ moments.
Recommended Episodes
So you don't have the scroll through hundreds of episodes per podcast series here are some tasters of what is available and recommended.
Stories Matter
Stories and experiences through the eyes of others matter. Inside and outside of scripture and history lived stories continue to provide information, discomfort, curiosity, and transformation.
Put your feet on the ground,
breathe deeply; in - out - repeat...
More resources
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Takatāpui & MVPFAFF+ Resources
outontheshelves.orgtakatapui.nzpublicservice.govt/diversity-and-Inclusion-glossaryleva.co.nznuowtrmoanatrust.commoanava.org