Allied in God’s image.
Being an ally includes developing out attitudes, understandings, theology, and growth within our faith journey - so that LGBTIQA+ persons might know they matter to us; living in their full dignity made in God’s image.

Allyship invites us
to be curious, open, and discerning.
Allies also deal with roadblocks, pushbacks and heartbreaks. We need to be aware that 'coming-out' as an Ally can upset some people. And this is why knowing our 'why' is so vital.
Being an Ally includes its own challenges that brings consequences. Allies have lost friends, leadership positions, jobs, peer support, community, family, and funding - it can break our hearts.
Equally, Allyship can be a HOLY invitation into knowing more of God's expansive heart - for everyone.
The journey.
There are levels of integration to being an Ally.
Awareness - Learning - Integration
Sensing a tension.
We are aware that discrimination against LGBTIQA+ people is happening and we are uncomfortable and curious.
As straight heterosexual, cisgender persons of faith, we are aware we have privilege.
We are aware LGBTIQA+ people can have a deep, authentic and active faith.
We are developing our 'why' through reading, listening, and engaging.
Knowing our 'why'.
We play our part in working towards ending systemic oppression against LGBTIQA+ communities – at work, church, society, and in our homes.
We are visible, approachable, and available as affirming Allies.
We volunteer and advocate.
We recognise our ongoing journey of unlearning and learning.
As Allies, we speak up when required, and/or invited, with kindness and courage.
Walking the talk.
We remember our journey with compassion and extend that same compassion to others starting their journey of Allyship.
We are affirming, inclusive, and desiring equity and flourishing for all - we play our part towards wholehearted change.
We remain aware and continue to listen, learn, pray, act, and integrate.
Allyship. 'Ologies'. Offerings
Allies get to gather information from many 'ologies'; Theology, Anthropology, Sociology, Psychology, Biology... Below, and from within the other AlreadyEnough pages, is the collective offerings at your fingertips.

Beyond a Binary God: A Theology for Trans* Allies

Be an Inclusion Ally: ABCs of LGBTQ+

Peace in the Valley Anthology: Members of the LGBTQIA+ Community and allies share their experience with faith, religion, spirituality and acceptance.

The Savvy Ally

50 Things to Know About Being An LGBTQ+ Ally: Become a Skilled LGBTQ+ Advocate

Out & Allied: An Anthology of Performance Pieces Written by LGBTQ Youth and Allies

Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground

How We Sleep At Night: A Mother's Memoir

Rainbow in the Word: LGBTQ Christians’ Biblical Memoirs

Oriented to Faith: Transforming the Conflict over Gay Relationships

Changing our Mind

The Widening of God's Mercy: Sexuality Within the Biblical Story

The End of Sexual Identity: Why Sex Is Too Important to Define Who We Are
Out & Allied Volume 2: An Anthology of Performance Pieces by LGBTQ Youth & Allies
Knowing our 'why' is vital.
As Allies, we too will deal with a few roadblocks, pushbacks and heartbreaks. Being an Ally can upset people.
Allies have lost friends, family, leadership, jobs, support, community, and funding- it can be heartbreaking.
However, becoming an Ally can also be a HOLY invitation into rediscovering the expansiveness of a creative God.
So, knowing our 'why' is vital.
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Listen, Learn, Love.
Got some time to listen rather than read? Here's some podcasts and videos with perspectives that may not have yet been considered.
Stories Matter
Stories and experiences through the eyes of others matter. Inside and outside of scripture and history lived stories continue to provide information, discomfort, curiosity, and transformation.
Put your feet on the ground,
breathe deeply; in - out - repeat...
More resources
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Takatāpui & MVPFAFF+ Resources
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